138. Why Traditional Classroom Management Fails (And What to Do Instead) with Special Guest Dr. Bethany Bilodeau

Mar 18, 2025

Classroom management challenges can leave teachers feeling overwhelmed and frustrated—but what if the key to better behavior isn’t stricter rules, but sensory regulation? In this episode, Dr. Bethany Bilodeau, an expert in human behavior with a Doctorate of Arts in Leadership, shares groundbreaking strategies that help both students and teachers feel safe, stay engaged, and reduce stress in the classroom.

Dr. Bilodeau’s career began as a high school biology teacher in Guam, and since then, she has designed innovative programs to help students thrive academically. She holds numerous certifications in behavioral therapies and has been recognized with prestigious awards, including the 2024 Business of the Year in Education and Business Excellence for Social Equity.

In this episode, she explains why traditional classroom management approaches often fall short and how small, simple shifts—like adjusting lighting, incorporating movement, and recognizing positive behaviors—can dramatically improve student engagement and behavior. She also shares insights from her upcoming book, Ease the Pain in the Classroom: A Guide to Safety and Regulation, set to launch in 2025, which provides practical, ready-to-use techniques for educators.

If you’ve ever felt burnt out by behavioral challenges, this episode is packed with doable strategies that won’t add to your already full plate.

TOPICS COVERED:

What a behaviorist does and how sensory regulation supports learning
Why classroom management alone isn’t enough—and what to do instead
How to create a safe and supportive classroom environment
The impact of lighting, movement, and sensory input on student behavior
Strategies to reduce disruptions and encourage engagement
How teachers’ energy affects the classroom (and how to manage it
The power of positive reinforcement in shaping behavior
What mirror neurons have to do with classroom behavior (and how to use them)
Simple daily strategies to foster calm and focus
How Dr. Bilodeau’s Behavior Bootcamp and upcoming book help educators

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